Tuesday, August 23, 2016

"So your a Do What???" A DOULA..."What does THAT mean?"

What is a doula?

The word doula, pronounced doo-la, comes from the ancient Greek meaning "a woman who serves" and is now used to refer to a trained, certified and experienced professional labor coach who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; and/or who provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period, and in my case, also in the case of bereavement situations.

Studies have shown that when doulas attend birth, labors are shorter with fewer complications, babies are healthier and they breastfeed more easily.

What are the advantages of having a birth doula?

A doula helps you before labor and delivery by answering your questions about what to expect, easing your fears, helping you develop a birth plan, and generally getting you ready for the arrival of your baby.

During labor and delivery, a doula provides constant, knowledgeable support. She can make suggestions about positions during labor, help you with breathing through contractions, and provide massage, among many other services. She can also answer questions you and your partner have about what's happening and make certain that your birth plan is followed as you wish.

It's impossible to predict or control how birth and labor will go. Will you connect emotionally with your labor and delivery nurse? A nurses time is split between patients and is limited in that way, however, your doula is there JUST to serve you. How will you react to the pain? Will you have a swift delivery or a long, drawn-out labor? How will your husband or partner hold up under the pressure?

Faced with these uncertainties, many women find enormous reassurance in having a doula by their side. Research has found that women who have continuous one-on-one support during labor tend to use pain medication less often, have slightly shorter labors, and are less likely to have a c-section or a forceps or vacuum-assisted delivery. In fact, if you're serious about trying to give birth without pain medication, a doula may be your best ally.

Women who have continuous support are also more likely to report being satisfied with their birth experience. One theory is that mothers who have continuous support produce lower levels of stress hormones during labor than women left alone or attended by inexperienced coaches.

Doulas provide support in many different ways during labor and delivery. In a typical hospital setting, doctors and some midwives don't stay in the room with you continuously during labor. Labor-and-delivery nurses often have to split their time between several patients, and they come and go according to their shifts. If you are between shifts, you can wind up with two or more L&D nurses, depending on the length of your labor. 

How do you choose a doula?


In my case, I am recommended by many OB/GYN Doctors and Midwives as well as word of mouth. I also am registered through the company I was certified through. I volunteer my services all over the world. My services include prenatal yoga as well because I am also a Certified Yoga Instructor and believe that it enhances a woman's ability to ready herself for the rigors of childbirth.

I suggest that you be diligent about using recommendations. Ask your Doctor or Midwife first who they recommend or whom they like to work with because that will create a harmonious environment for you. Put yourself and your baby first! Then consider your instinct. Interview a couple of people and see who YOU click with. Choose the person you would like to experience this very special moment with and you are off to a great start!

Blessings to you on your journey to birth...namaste...
A doula (also known as a birth attendant) believes in ‘mothering the mother’. She enables a woman and her partner to have the most satisfying birth experience possible, from pregnancy and into motherhood. This type of support allows the whole family to relax and enjoy the experience too. DONA (Doulas of North America) explains how doulas fit into the birth team: “Women have complex needs during childbirth. In addition to the safety of modern obstetrical care, and the love and companionship provided by their partners, women need consistent, continuous reassurance, comfort, encouragement and respect. They need individualised care based on their circumstances and preferences. The role of the birth doula encompasses the non-clinical aspects of care during childbirth.” Doulas have been actively supporting women in labour for a very long time, well before it was the formalised role that it is today. As a result of positive word of mouth (and the need for increased support), doulas are fast growing in popularity. Who Are Doulas? Doulas are trained and experienced in childbirth and are usually mothers themselves. While they have good knowledge and awareness of the birth process, a doula does not support the mother in a medical role. That is the job of the midwife or doctor. A doula helps to keep birth normal (if that is the wishes of the birthing mother), and is a valuable addition to the birth team. Should a birth become complicated and require medical assistance, a doula will still remain by your side and help in any way she can. She will not make decisions for those she supports, but she will assist them through the decision making process. A doula provides balanced information so the couple can make their own choices. Many women consider doulas to be an absolute must, especially for those giving birth in a hospital. Due to the over-medicalisation of birth, inductions of labour have skyrocketed, and are partly to blame for the 30% (that’s one out of every three!) Australian and American babies now born via c-section. Some hospitals sport c-section rates of 50% and higher. This is a shocking statistic, well above the World Health Organisation recommendations of 10-15% — after this amount, it doesn’t save any further lives, which is what the c-section was intended for. Given the long term emotional and physical effects that medical births can have on the mother, her partner and baby, a doula is a valuable asset to your birth team. By amping up your support team with experienced, continuous care from a doula, you’re giving yourself an increased chance at a better experience. Your support team are the people you will rely on to get you through your toughest, most intense moments. How well they hold the space and support you can impact on the outcome of your birth. With a doula, you know that someone is always on YOUR team, holding the space for you and your family. She works for you (and your partner) and has your best interests at heart. What Does A Doula Do? A doula may provide some or all of the following services, dependent on her training and skills. Often doulas are also qualified in other therapies too, so it always helps to ask! Birth education and preparation Birth planning (including creating a written birth plan/birth preferences document) De-briefing previous births Massage and other comfort measures Optimal fetal positioning Suggest positions and changes to help ease pain and facilitate a smoother, more effective labour Provide reassurance and encouragement Talking through emotional blockages which may come up during pregnancy and in labour Keep your ‘environment’ going – aromatherapy, music, candles etc Assisting you with negotiation of your preferences Photography and/or video of the birth itself, as well as those precious first moments as a family So much more! One of the the biggest bonuses of hiring a doula is that fact that she is a professional birth support person. Doulas are trained in the art of birth support, and have a keen eye and intuition on what a labouring mother needs. Things which a hospital midwife unfortunately does not always have time for (as much as she may want to). Things which your partner may not pick up on, or situations he may not know how to deal with. A doula has a heart that is caring and nurturing, yet is able to remain calm and focused if things go off the rails — something that can be very difficult for family members and partners. Because family and friends tend to have an emotional connection, in the event of a problem or at the peak intensity moments, they can buckle, not knowing what to do, say or think. A doula can think clearly, see pros and cons of any situation and relay them to the couple to make their own decision. When we’re stressed, we don’t make the best decisions, and in hospital, that may make your partner, mother or other, completely agreeable to what’s being put on the table. They may feel out of their depth, uncertain or scared. A doula can help explain what’s happening with compassion and without judgment or medical jargon, so its easier for everyone to understand. - See more at: http://www.bellybelly.com.au/pregnancy/doulas-what-is-a-doula/

Thursday, August 18, 2016

Welcome to Just Jeannie's Blog!

Welcome Friends!

I am so happy to be able to share my life with you all! 

Life is so very hectic for all of us that we often forget to take time for the simple things like gratitude, kindness and enjoying life's simple pleasures like warm breezes on a summer morning when all you can hear are the birds chirping...

I am one of those people who never used to slow down and take pleasure in simple moments. I was caught up in the "rat race" of life and now my life is totally different. I meditate daily, do yoga and keep a gratitude journal daily. It has changed my view of myself and the world around me over the years. Granted, it has taken me many years to develop and hone these skills and I have had lapses over periods of time where I neglected to meditate or keep my journal of gratitude etc. However, it is worth it! I can guarantee you that.

If you would like to improve your overall well being, health and quality of life...please stick with me and follow me on Twitter @JustJeannie2 and @JSLabourOfLove. Also, please watch my video series, which I will start up again soon, on YouTube called Just Jeannie where I will discuss all sorts of topics and would love to discuss anything you suggest here. 

Thank you for reading...I will stay in touch and I would LOVE to hear from you so please comment below or ask any questions you have!

Namaste,
Just Jeannie xo
 

Sunday, August 14, 2016

Bali, Indonesia!

Hello!

I'm Just Jeannie from the YouTube Channel of the same name! You can find me by following this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7G00kmcsR49-xGZpNL8p2g

I started out with my YouTube Channel preparing to do it on a regular basis, but life started going 90 miles per hour! I am sure many of you can relate. Now I am putting life back in order and reorganizing once again. 

I went to Bali in June for about 3 weeks (my second visit) and did not post any of the video on the Just Jeannie channel, however, I will if anyone would like to see it. My visit was beautiful, spiritual and very relaxing. During my time there, I met an amazing woman who started a free birth clinic and health clinic for women, children and families in Indonesia. As a Doula and Yoga Instructor, I was moved beyond words and decided to return from November to December in order to volunteer my services to help others. I've never witnessed such need and pure gratitude in my life from the people of Indonesia.

I have to admit, as the time draws near, my nerves are rising and my hope is that I will be good enough. I will do all that I can. In the meantime, I'm raising funds for the Foundation which I will bring to them when I arrive in Indonesia.  As my personal donation, I've given up all gifts and the party we had planned for my 50th birthday party as well as our favorite family holiday - Thanksgiving. We will donate that money we save to the Foundation as well. These things have brought me such joy...

As my purpose in life shifts, I notice how my view of the world shifts. Balinese people are the kindest most generous people I have ever encountered, yet they don't know what it is like to have clean water to drink in their homes. The American dollar, as I write this, is worth over 13 million of their Indonesian Rupiah. Which means that by our standards, they are very "money poor". But to me, they are the richest people I know!

They are rich in love, happiness, spirit, heart, faith, charity and community. I look forward to giving to them as they have given so selflessly to me so many times over... 

Stay tuned for more and let me know what you think and if you have any questions, just ask!